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Ending The Morning Madness

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Ending The Morning Madness

Back-to-school time — what does that mean to you? For some people, it’s shopping for school supplies, gearing up for PTA meetings, and artwork taped to the refrigerator. For others, it’s the beginning of a constant struggle to get everyone up, ready, and out of the house on time. Morning should be an enjoyable time for you and your kids — not a battle of the wills or a race against the clock. But you can make the “morning mambo” go a lot smoother, with a little preparation.

Get Ready The Night Before (Or Sooner!)

How much of your AM stress is caused by rushing around at the last minute taking care of routine chores? Getting ready in the morning is much easier if you start working on it the night before. What must happen for your kids to get out of the door on time? How much of it can be done in advance? Have your children spend 15 minutes before they go to bed packing everything they need for school into their book bags. Ask your kids to pick out the clothes they plan to wear and lay them out on a chair. Make everyone’s lunches and store them in the refrigerator overnight. One of my clients finds it easier when she plans out a week’s worth of lunches each Sunday. She fills paper lunch bags with non-perishable foods and labels them with the child’s name and the day of the week. Then all she has to do is add a sandwich or soup and hand it to the right child. And while she’s preparing lunches, her kids are putting together a week’s worth of outfits together in their closets. Mornings are now a snap at her house!

Planning ahead is especially important for bigger projects. Have you ever found yourself making a last-minute batch of cupcakes or sewing a costume for the school play 15 minutes before Johnny is supposed to leave the house? As soon as you find out about a special event at school (a field trip, a class party, an awards banquet), you should note three different dates on your calendar. Mark the date you will buy the supplies, including a list of everything you need to get. Mark the date you will start your preparations — which could be days or weeks ahead of time, depending on the size of the project. Then mark the date the event occurs, with a list of everything you need to send to school with your child. The more you spill out of your head and onto your calendar, the less likely you are to forget something important.

Create A Launching Pad

How many tries does it take to herd your brood out of the house in the morning? As you steer everyone toward the door, a small voice says, “I forgot my lunch.” You go back and find the stray lunch bag sitting on the kitchen counter. On your second time out, someone else pipes up, “Where are my library books?” A short search locates them beneath the sofa, hidden under a discarded windbreaker. You make a third attempt, only to hear the words, “I left my homework on the dining room table.” This can go on for days!

Some mornings seem like a comedy of errors — Three Stooges in miniature. But it’s not particularly funny when you find yourself running 45 minutes behind, the kids have missed the bus, and you have to drive them to school. Now they are late for class, your schedule is thrown off for the remainder of the day, and everyone is in a bad mood. How can you prevent this scenario from repeating itself over and over again?

The key is to set up a “launching pad” — a table, chair, basket, or other container located near the door. When your children gather up their school supplies the night before, have them place their book bags at the “launching pad.” If your kids can never seem to remember what the need for school, create a standard checklist for them — homework, band instrument, gym clothes, sports equipment, supplies for any extracurricular activities, library books, whatever. You can even make a note of where they tend to leave things if that helps — “Gym Clothes: check the laundry basket.” The goal is to make sure that everything they need for school is in one place when it comes time to hit the road. Then, your children can simply grab their bags on the way out of the door, instead of playing hide-and-seek with their school supplies.

Develop A Healthy Routine

Kids, particularly small children and those with ADHD tendencies, need a lot of structure to be able to function effectively. But in our fast-paced society, few adults even make time for a stable daily routine in their own lives. We go 90 miles an hour, grab quick meals on the way from one activity to the next, stay up late to get it all done, and wake feeling exhausted the next morning. We’re teaching these unhealthy habits to our kids — it’s time to reverse the “rush,” before these behaviors set in.

Start with a consistent schedule for going to bed — one that allows your children a full eight hours of sleep. Hitting the sack at 7:00 one night and 10:00 the next is hard on a child’s body and keeps your little one from developing good nighttime habits. Also pay attention to what your kids do before they retire for the evening. Nothing feels less like going to sleep than playing noisy video games for hours, then being abruptly rushed off to bed while you’re still overstimulated! Developing a relaxing routine — a warm bath, brush your teeth, read a story, then lights out — will help both you and your kids unwind and sleep easier.

A solid routine in the morning is just as important. No one likes to be hauled out of bed and immediately thrown into turmoil — and it’s an especially unpleasant way for children to start the day. You can help your kids (even your sleepyheads) get in gear by developing a schedule that gradually increases their activity level as the morning progresses. This also gives you  some “buffer” time for getting ready. Letting your kids sleep until the last possible minute is just asking for a rushed and stressful morning. Although they will probably complain, get them out of bed so that they have time to spare — even if the toaster explodes, Sally can’t find her shoe, and the car won’t start!

So often in these busy times, we feel at the mercy of the world around us. But your morning routine is one area of life that you control completely. You make the choice about what kind of day you will have — one that begins calmly and with quality family time, or one that starts off crazed and goes downhill from there. And back-to-school is the perfect time to start etching those positive routines into stone — before the bad habits take over. So pause for a moment and ask yourself — when the first day of school hits this year, what kind of day will you have?

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Ramona Creel is an award-winning 15-year veteran organizer and member of the National Association Of Professional Organizers. As well as having birthed “The A-To-Z Of Getting Organized,” Ramona is also the author of “The Professional Organizer’s Bible: A Slightly Irreverent And Completely Unorthodox Guide For Turning Clutter Into A Career”—and the creator of more than 200 “quick-start” business tools and templates for use by productivity professionals. She writes seven different blogs, has worked with hundreds of clients, and has delivered scores of presentations on getting organized. Ramona resides on the roads of America as a full-time RVer—living and working in a 29-foot Airstream. Learn more at and RamonaCreel.com.

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9 Responses

  1. Jennifer says:

    My mom used to wake me up by rubbing my back. We never fought much in the mornings. =)

  2. Ramona says:

    My mother used to wake me up by shaking a bowl of ice water over my head — it’s hilarious that I’m such an early riser now, because I hated getting up in the AM as a kid!

  3. Amy says:

    This is so totally accurate! Things run so smoothly in the mornings (and I sleep so much better!) when all is prepared. My daughter already has her outfit picked out (and on the hook in her bedroom) for her acting class tomorrow…her tote bag is packed…Voila…no clothing surprises or dramas in the morning!! And the kids are much more relaxed when they feel prepared for the next day. Good post.

  4. Laura says:

    I never thought I would hear you talking about PTA meetings!

  5. Ramona says:

    laura, just because I don’t want ’em in my house, doesn’t mean that I don’t know how to organize them! :)

  6. Jennifer says:

    Ice water would get you bitten! I wake up very grumpy without my 1/2 hour of cuddle time to ease the transition. hehe

  7. I love the idea of preparing a week’s worth of lunches at a time, but I’m wondering where she kept them. I don’t think I’ve ever lived anywhere that this could be done without them being in the way.

    • Ramona Creel says:

      Actually, she had a pretty sizable pantry — and we just set aside one shelf as the “lunch shelf.”

  8. Lisa Mallis says:

    Easing into the morning routine truly is so much more relaxing! Often, we think “oh-if I could just sleep for 10 more minutes my life would be perfect” but the reality is, you are now frantic, crabby, and late! So NOT worth the 10 extra minutes!

    Lisa

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